RE: D*

Carol,

I should be a bit more direct instead of giving you examples. H*
has told me a number of times, including recently, that it is her goal
to get me out of D* life. I am not part of the plan. She has
spent a lot of money towards this end (a lot from my point of view).
Just last week she suggested that I stop seeing D* as though he
were some sort of utility that I should turn off. I have known H*
since about the time she came to the U.S. from South Korea, and I know
she is polite, intelligent, vindicative, manipulative, and she gets
what she wants. She has a low opinion of "stupid Americans" who she
views as easily manipulated. I also know she doesn't get along with
kids or dogs - go figure, she sued me for both. The dog has been locked
in the back yard ever since, and God knows what is going on with
D*. May God help him.

-tom

On Thu, 2004-09-09 at 21:06, tom lynch wrote:
> Carol,
>
> My email address is tom.lynch@somedomain. Please let me know when we start
> the computer lab.
>
> I would welcome the three of us being on the same page, but after three
> years of divorce (and seven of marriage) I have never received one
> single paper returned from the school(s) from H*. For example, at
> the beginning of this year H* picked up records and nicely promised
> me a copy while standing in front of the principal. I haven't received
> the copy - and if history is any indicator, I never will. As another
> example, the last time I ordered school pictures (at the Lycee) H*
> picked up both her and my copies of D* pictures. She has been
> real nice about it, but two years have gone by and I still don't have
> the pictures. H* failed to mention the science fair last year; she
> also didn't mention the YMCA talent show. Both things D* wanted
> to do very much and it caught me by surprise. I had to scramble and stay
> up all night for the science fair. I'm up for trying to be on the same
> page, and I'm sure H* will be really nice about saying she will -
> but it would be more realistic for the school and you to keep me in the
> loop.
>
> -tom
>
Received on Thu Sep 9 21:38:14 2004