RE: joint medical, and D*' status

On Mon, 2004-09-20 at 09:50, H* Lynch wrote:
> Tom,
>
> As for medical decision for D*, I have an exclusive right. Please
> read the decree carefully. This provision was made because your medical
> misuse over D* (changing doctors so many times, making D*
> going thru x-rays on his head when he was not even one year old....).
>

We had an agreed settlment, there was no such order based on X-raying
anyone's head or changing doctors.

I have read it, and I remember the negociation on this topic very
well. The word exclusive was crossed off as a requirement to conclude
the agreement. My copy shows this clearly. Do you need another copy?

I have not been included in any discussions over D* with a doctor.

!! Please inform me of what has been done, and what is being done!!

> In any case, I have already notified over the phone (few weeks ago over
> the phone after D* hit two of YMCA counselors) that D* is
> going to have counseling with Dr. Caryl Dalton. It is so ridiculous to

On the phone you said that you intended to find someone we could all
work with. You implied this wasn't going to be your lawyer's hand
picked pyschologist this time. She hadn't worked out before. I did not
realize D* was seeing anyone. I want to know what is being done,
what proceedures are being used, and I would like copies of all medical
records. You may fax them to me (512-233-0770).

Also, D* had good reason to be upset with the YMCA. Children don't
always communicate in words, but he was glad to explain it when I asked
him. Your failure to understand or to communicate with him has
frustrated him further. Imagine having a mother who would take you to
see a shrink over an incident rather than asking you what happened.

> see that you don't know anything about this, especially last Friday I
> had a visit from Round Rock police officer following up your "strange"
> filing against me, that I allow the therapist to hypnotize D*. I
> assure you that no hypnosis with D* and no medication given to
> D*.

H*, what have you done? Don't you see the damage you are
creating? Don't you think it is time to stop being vindicative?

>
> I think I have elaborated enough, and please don't misuse Round Rock
> Police Department to harass me. This is being recorded and can be
> considered as indirect harassment.
>
> Thanks for the cooperation.
>
> --H*
>
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: tom lynch [mailto:tom.lynch@somedomain]
> Sent: Saturday, September 18, 2004 12:55 AM
> To: H* Lynch
> Subject: joint medical, and D*' status
>
> H*,
>
> Note, our decree is very clear about joint medical, and I have not heard
> anything from you, or agreed to anything yet D* seems to be
> indicating otherwise. Is D* taking any medication? Is he under
> going any therapy or proceedures of any kind? Have you been leaving me
> in the dark about something? Please elaborate.
>
> Tom
>
Received on Mon Sep 20 14:24:05 2004