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Spankings? Lieing? Disobedience? Anger and confusion over photos? He
spanked you! ;-) I hope you were dressed. H* get a life. This
feminist propaganda of false accusations is wearing thin. Just because
the blackmail worked to reverse the temporary orders, don’t get the
idea that it is going to win every issue. I.e. this won’t help you
prevent my son from seeing his father.

I did not ask for two weekends "extra" I asked you to schedule my usual
second weekend, which I was forced to let go of in the past because you
have refused to assist with travel expenses. (I did not expect so much
vim and vitriol in response. Gee.) In this case I will be in Austin
long enough in May to do two weekends. I have already scheduled the
one weekend at the end of the month, when shall we do the other?

When D* and I are together we have a great time. I have not
experienced the behavior issues you have brought up. In fact he
excels. Why don't you let D* live with me. If his behavior
problems in school don't subside, we can switch back. I’ll be glad to
put that in a contract. D* is my number one priority. I
guarantee he will get the best.

Note, if I don’t pick him up for his violin lessons, as you are
requesting, are you going to take him? Or, are you canceling these
lessons? Are you going to help him practice?

-tom

> This is a multi-part message in MIME format.
>
>
> Tom,
>
> As I told you on the phone, I have sent a letter for my summer
schedule
> to your San Jose address. I have also sent the letter as an e-mail
> attachment. You are saying that you haven't received both of them, so
I
> am going to resend the letter three ways (e-mail, San Jose address,
and
> your P.O. Box address in Austin which you gave me with this e-mail.)
>
> I don't understand why you are not giving me your Austin home address,
> which I am entitled to know per our divorce decree. I assure you that
I
> have absolutely no interest where you live, but I need to know where
> D* is during your visit. D* is saying your apartment is
> StoneLake Blvd in Austin. Isn't it still unclear to you that not
> providing the address information hurts our parenting ?
>
> Reagrding your request for extra two weekends on May, the answer is
> "NO". As I talked to you over the phone last night, I can't overlook
> your negative influence on D* by bringing up our divorce matter
to
> 6 year old child, by showing the picture completely out of context
(which
> were dismissed by the court assigned Guardian). It is completely
> insensible as a parent. D* is tremendously stressed and confused
> by losing trust on adults including mom and dad, which obviously is
> caused by your twisted influence on him. There are lots of notes in
> D*'s folder since spring break about not following
directions/not
> obeying teachers. This bad behavior has kept escalated after your
spring
> break with you and your staying in Austin since then. I don't have any
> other choice to protect D* from all of these, so I ask you to
> follow our divorce agreement by not visiting D* to YMCA
> afterschool during my possession period.
>
> Another serious concern is the spanking practiced by you. Recently he
> started to hit his friends and spanked them and me. You won't see this
> behavior when D* is with you because he is afraid of you.
Please,
> please don't use spanking for the discipline purpose. Spanking is a
> violence against children disguised as a displine, which teaches them
> nothing but the message,"violence is O.K. sometimes".
>
> I don't want D* to grow up torn between us. He loves both of us
> and he is already suffering from why all of us can't live together.
We
> can't help him much on that, but at least we should not stress him
with
> our grown-up messes. I really want him to enjoy his childhood as much
as
> possible, although sadly some of them are already lost not by his
> choice.
> I am still hoping that we will have amicable parenting relationship
(at
> least to D*'s point of view) in near future. All depend on your
> cooperation.
>
> --H*
>
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: tlynch [mailto:tom.lynch@somedomain]
> Sent: Monday, April 19, 2004 3:03 PM
> To: H* Lynch
> Subject: mail addresses, no mail from you- please verify receipt of
this
> email
>
>
> H* you had expressed a sense of inefficiency at mailing things
to
> California just to have them sent back here when I am in Texas.
>
> I will be out of town at the end of April, but I will be in Texas
most
> of May. Is there a chance I can pick him up for two weekends in May?
> Here is a Texas mailing address:
>
> Tom Lynch
> POB10199
> Austin TX 78766
>
> You may recognize it, as I have given it to you before.
>
> Also, I have not received anything from you about the summer
vacation.
> You said you were going to use regular mail and send it to
California.
> Anyway, if you can also send it to me via email that would just be
even
> simpler.
>
>
> Tom.Lynch@somedomain
>
>

Tom.Lynch@somedomain
Received on Tue Apr 20 15:03:04 2004