RE: summer schedule

Tom,

It is clear that we do not have mutual agreement on summer schedule.

Per our divorce decree, section (b), "Mutual agreement or Specified Terms for Possession" in page 9,

IT IS ORDERED that the conservators shall have possession of the child at times mutually agreed to in advance by the parties, and, in the absence of mutual agreement, it is ORDERED that the conservators shall have possession of the child under the specified terms set out in this Standard Possession Order.

Your proposed period, from Aug 1 til Aug 14 with written notice by April 1 does not follow our agreement on section (c), item (7) on page 10, which says, THOMAS WLAKER LYNCH shall have possesion of the child for two full weeks beginning no earlier than the day after the child's school is dismissed for the summer vacation and ending no later than seven days (2005-2006 school starts August 16) before school resumes at the end of the summer vacation in that year, to be excercised in no more than two separate periods of at least seven consecutive days each, as specified in the written notice. These periods of possession shall begin and end at 6:00 p.m.

Per our divorce decree, section (c) "Parents Who Reside 100 Miles or Less Apart", item (7) "Extended Summer Possessions by THOMAS WALKER LYNCH", on page 10, without written notice by April 1, THOMAS WALKER LYNCH shall have possessio of the child for fourteen consecutive days in that year beginning at 6:00 p.m. on July 1 and ending at 6:00 p.m. on July 14.

Therefore, following the court order, you shall have possession of the child for fourteen consecutive days
in that year beginning at 6:00 p.m. on July 1 and ending at 6:00 p.m.
on July 14.

Clear and simple. Thanks.

--H*

-----Original Message-----
From: tlynch [mailto:tom.lynch@somedomain]
Sent: Monday, April 04, 2005 9:31 PM
To: H* Lynch
Subject: RE: summer schedule

This makes for the third schedules change proposed. None of them have
been reasonable, or consistent with my notice.

You had the right idea when you left D* with me when you went to
England. Not only because I wanted to spend more time with him as you
said, but also because a) D* wanted it, and b) because it is good
for our son to spend time with his father. You made a small step in
the right direction with this decision, and it has been long in
coming. Please don't start back peddling now.

D* has a long enough summer break for both of us to spend our
time off with him. Also, D* and I have spent six weeks together
or more in all prior summers. All. It will be good for D* to do
the same this year. He expects it. We have plans and a lot of stuff
to do. Let us use our mutual advantages in Dimitri's best interests.
Why not discuss the topic from this point of view, rather blithely
citing pages and paragraphs?

> Tom,
>
> Since you haven't given me any valid written notice specifying two
week summer possession by April 1, per our divorce decree described in
page 10,
>
> You shall have possession of the child for fourteen consecutive days
in that year beginning at 6:00 p.m. on July 1 and ending at 6:00 p.m.
on July 14.
>
> --H*
>
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: tlynch [mailto:tom.lynch@somedomain]
> Sent: Monday, April 04, 2005 7:28 PM
> To: H* Lynch
> Subject: RE: summer schedule
>
>
> You have heard from me, and that would be a bad assumption.
>
>
>
> > Tom,
> >
> > > Unless I don't hear from you on this matter, I will assume that
> your summer
> > > schedule starts from July 25, 6:00 pm and ends on August 8 6:00
pm.
> >
> > Since I haven't heard from you, I will mark my calendar that your
> summer time will be July 25 thru August 8.
> > Thanks.
> >
> > --H*
> >
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: H* Lynch
> > Sent: Monday, April 04, 2005 9:07 AM
> > To: 'tom.lynch@somedomain'
> > Subject: RE: summer schedule
> >
> >
> > Tom,
> >
> > When I went to England for my business trip for a week, I have
> several friends who are willing to take care of D*. Since you
> have been asking more time with D*, I was being considerate for
> D* to be with you, although I was a bit concerned like this
which
> you are using that against me.
> >
> > In any case, since you are feeling bad about it, I will take six
days
> from your summer possession period. Please let me know which days you
> would like to give them to me.
> >
> > --H*
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: tom.lynch@somedomain]
> > Sent: Sunday, April 03, 2005 6:48 PM
> > To: H* Lynch
> > Subject: Re: summer schedule
> >
> >
> > You know I have been looking through this document, and I just
can't
> find the
> > part about "H* takes a vacation to England, and Tom watches
> D* for
> > a week." At this point no one is forcing you to be fair about
> splitting
> > D*'s summer vacation, but I am asking you to be fair about
> splitting
> > his summer vacation, especially since I have the time off.
> >
> > On Sunday 03 April 2005 13:16, you wrote:
> > > Per our divorce decree, page 10, for parents who reside 100 miles
> or less
> > > apart, with written notice by April 1,
> > >
> > > THOMAS WALKER LYNCH shall have possession of the child for two
full
> weeks
> > > beginning no earlier than the day after the child's school is
> dismissed for
> > > the summmer vacation and ENDING NO LATER THAN SEVEN DAYS BEFORE
> SCHOOL
> > > RESUMES AT THE END OF THE SUMMER VACATION IN THAT YEAR, to be
> excercised in
> > > no more than two separate periods of at least seven consecutive
days
> > > each,as specified in the written notice. These periods of
> possession shall
> > > begin and end at 6:00 pm.
> > >
> > > School start on August 16 (Please see the attached calender) and
> this means
> > > that your proposed summer schedule from Aug 1 to Aug 14 should
be
> > > amended, i.e., the last day of summer possession time should be
> on/before
> > > Aug 8.
> > >
> > > Unless I don't hear from you on this matter, I will assume that
> your summer
> > > schedule starts from July 25, 6:00 pm and ends on August 8 6:00
pm.
> > >
> > > --H*
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: H* Lynch
> > > Sent: Friday, April 01, 2005 2:39 PM
> > > To: 'tom.lynch@somedomain'
> > > Subject: RE: summer schedule
> > >
> > >
> > > I know there is a clear difference between less than 100 mile
apart
> and
> > > more than 100 mile apart.
> > >
> > > I will get back to you after I review our divorce decree from
home.
> > > In any case, you should send me a written notification with your
> signature
> > > (before April 1).
> > >
> > > Thanks.
> > >
> > > --H*
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: tom.lynch@somedomain]
> > > Sent: Friday, April 01, 2005 1:58 PM
> > > To: H* Lynch
> > > Subject: summer schedule
> > >
> > >
> > > I have six weeks off this summer which I would like to spend with
> D*.
> > > In any case I will take the first two weeks of August. I would
> suggest
> > > the month of August and two weeks in July.
> > >
> > > -tom
> >
> >
>
> Tom.Lynch@somedomain
>
>

Tom.Lynch@somedomain
Received on Tue Apr 5 08:41:16 2005