Tape #4 Side A
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: I'm calling for D*, I would like to speak with my son. If
now is not a good time I would like to know when is a good time to call. Its
8:00 on New Years Day. I guess I have another year to look forward to you not
answering a cell phone call, or your home phone. You tell me there is some home
work you need to get from me. I'm telling you also that I need to see
D*'s medical records in their entirety, I don' think you have ever
provided any, especially those with his child psychologist. I would like to be
kept up to date as I have always said and I think your being a very bad steward
of our son by not including his father. In our previous conversation you said
children never lie, I don't know if I think thats true. Anyway D* tells
me, you might be planning to move to Korea, and he says you want to know how
he'd feel about that. Now if children never lie, then is this true? There has
also been some other things he has told me, but that I haven't gotten back to
it because we don't communicate very well, and I didn't want to be
incitefull. But I certainly do want to see his medical records, I think it is very bad
judgment to exclude me, and I again I want to ask you stop doing that. You
should find a child psychologist that doesn't work for your attorney. Its very
poor judgment to pick a child psychologist that works for your attorney, and
exclude me. Obviously you didn't have D*'s best interest at heart when you
did that. There is still time to change it and make things right and I'm asking
you to do that. At any rate I would like to speak with my son. Bye.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: Hello, its about ten after eight on New Year's day. I just
called the house to speak with D*. You had asked me earlier to call you
back. I'm not sure how to make an arrangement for you to come and get homework
and such. And also, you should know I want copies of medical records. I have
said this in e-mail many times. I want to know whats going on with D* and
the child psychologist. As I mentioned on the other line, you had told me kids
never lie, D* has told me that you told him, to come and tell me that the
child psychologist is quitting. Basically he is telling me you told him to come
and lie to me. If kids never lie then H* I'd have to say that was a very
low thing for you to have done putting a child, our child in the middle of
these petty and vindictive acts is about as low as it gets. Anyways, when can I
get the medical records, call me back so we can arrange a place to drop off a
reading assignment otherwise I will leave it with the school. Anyways, I would
like to speak with my son on the phone, for many months you have not answered
your phone. You even put D*'s voice on the answering machine saying he is
not home. You have never called back letting me know when would be a good time
to call.
(Answering Service)
Tom Lynch: Also H*, about Lika, it seems you don't want the
dog, she was outside without tags. When I dropped D* off I gave you guys
an opportunity to take Lika and you didn't take Lika, so you said you had the
tags at the house then I asked to get the tags so I could put them on her, and
then you say you want Lika back. So I guess I conclude you don't really have
tags. As far as meeting to exchange Lika, as I said when I dropped D* off
that's fine. So call me back and we'll arrange a time to exchange Lika. I would
like you to acknowledge that I want medical records, I want to know whats going
on with my son and I want to be able to talk to him on the telephone. I even
sent him a really nice telephone, and I'm told he can't use it. dunno you
really should tell me a good time when I can talk to my son. When I was
dropping D* and you said you didn't want Lika you said it was because
D* said he wanted Lika to stay with me, I think that is understandable,
actually the dog is his dog. Its not my dog, its not your dog, its D*'s
dog. Why don't we talk and see what D* wants, I think that is probably
the bast answer. Of course I would like to talk with my son. I'm disappointed
that you put him the middle of the dog thing. I feel bad about this, I dunno,
when is this nightmare going to stop? This vindictiveness of your is just
amazing. You brought up the court order about not going to the house, you know
I agreed to that court order. I have given you a lot in this divorce. You lost
custody in the temporary orders, and I came back and gave you a joint managing
conservatorship. You know not everybody would have done that. You know I
volunteered to that protective order so that we could smooth things over so
that we could get an agreement. And you have tried to pawn me off into the head
wind ever since, using it as a weapon. One you got all the property, what more
could you want. Can you not just drop this shroud of yours its really doing
D* a lot of harm. If you had one stich of sense, you would change course
on this. It has been three years now since, and still try to get me at every
corner. H* it is just too much.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: Too bad nobody is home. Why don't you give me a call back and
let me know when a good time to call is. You have got my numbers, if you don't
have my numbers you should let me know, you have my e-mail address. So
hopefully I'll talk to you soon.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: This is call for D*. Hello? Are you guys going to answer
the phone? I understand D* has papers to get back, and your asking me to
bring the dog. Are we doing this today or not? It's twenty to six, give me a
call. I'll talk to you all soon.
(Answering Service)
Tom Lynch: H*, you were saying that you would like to get the dog
back, and you would like some of D*'s school papers. Talk to later.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: Ended Call.
H* Lynch: Its Monday and I believe you wanted to return D*'s book bag. So, hope we can do this early afternoon, call me I will be at home, thanks bye.
H* Lynch: Hello?
Tom Lynch: H*
H* Lynch: Yes?
Tom Lynch: So lets see you want something from D*'s folder here?
H* Lynch: D* said he needs a book.
Tom Lynch: I don't see a book, how big is it, what does it look like? Can
I talk to him?
H* Lynch: What does the book look like? Do you want to talk to your
dad?
D* Lynch: Dad?
Tom Lynch: D* how are you?
D* Lynch: Dad, did you get my message?
Tom Lynch: I did get your message. Thank you very much. I tried to call
you back right away. And nobody answered. Are you still there? Hello?
--Call Ended
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: H*, I would very much like to speak with D*. As I
said on my previous messages, just let me know when a good time to call is. If
I'm not calling at a good time just let me know when a good time would be. You
never answer this phone, or very rarely answer it, only when you are expecting
it to ring because you told me to call. What does it take to talk my son?
Something's happened this weekend that I think he'd like to know about, and
certainly we'd like to discuss it. So how can I get a hold of him?
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: H*, when you guys get back would you please give me a
call? I would like to talk to my son. It is a 8:45, its important, its the 16th
of course. Talk to ya'll later. If you can let me know when a good time to call
is so I don't always have to dial and get the nobody is home message, said by
my own son.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: D* this is your dad. Anyways, H* let me know when a
good time to call is.
(Answering Service)
Tom Lynch: H*, I'm calling for D* at the house and nobody is
answering. How can I get a hold of D* on the phone? Please let me know
you might e-mail me. Let me know when a good time to call is. Thanks, bye.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: This is our sons dad, calling to speak with D*. I'm
disappointed that you haven't told me when a good time to call is. It seems
that you are never home, or rather you never answer your phone. What's it take
to be able to call?
(Answering Service)
Tom Lynch: H*, I think we need to talk about D*, like when can
I get to talk to him, and also about what is going on at school. If you could
return my call I'd appreciate it. I'd like to know when a good time to call
D* is.
(Answering Machine)
Tom Lynch: D* its your dad. I need to make some finishing touches on
the science fair project and I need to know what you want done. Talk to you
soon.
(Answering Service)
Tom Lynch: H*, I wanted to talk with D*. I'm also curious I
noticed that D* was out of school today. Is he ok? Is he going to make
the science fair alright? Talk to you soon.
(Voice Mail)
Tom Lynch:--Call Ended
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