| 1998 04 10 |
Note, D* was born on this day.
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| 1998 04 13 |
Baby D* has suitcase Thrown at him
H* explains she was aiming at me.
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| 1998 ~09 |
Baby D* hit by
H* as punishment for pooping diaper She agreed to
stop.
See H*'s
own testimony from June 2001 hearing, summary
See H*'s own
testimony from June 2001 hearing, specifically p160
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| 1999 04 23 |
D* climbing stove
to get boiling water. H* appeared to be
watching TV while babysitting. I came downstairs
because I heard D* crying. (I pulled the date from
my journal, the book shows this in chronology later
than it should.)
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| 1999 06 06 |
Emergency Room
Report H* says she didn't hit D*, rather he fell
backwards off of a chair.
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| 1999 06 20 |
Emergency Room
Report H* explains D* hit his own head on a wall.
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| 1999 08 08 |
Emergency Room
Report H* explains D* fell off the dishwasher.
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| 2000 ~ |
H* explains D* hit his head
on cabinet door
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| 2000 07 15 |
Emergency Room Report H*
explains D* ran into the counter.
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| 2000 07 27 |
D* in water puddle running into
220VAC conduit. H* said she didn't know it was
dangerous. See
H* testimony p160, at bottom Also appears in CPS report.
CPS agreed that it wasn't dangerous, though one of the
officers declined to demonstrate the safety, even being
offered $2000. He worked as a PI for $70 an hour.
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| 2000 ~September |
D* sites ABCs trying to
distract H* as she dumps a dog's mess on dad's head.
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| 2000 11 4 |
D* head stuffed into pillow
while H* screams This incident was documented at the
temporary orders hearing in June of 2001.
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| 2000 11 16 |
D* fed many bottles of
Triaminic. NPR had an article that warning of
Triaminc. It went on sale at Walgreens, and H* bought
a whole bag of them, six or seven bottles. I
discovered on this day that they were all gone. They
were given to D*. H* says it was only three or four
bottles. [Appears to be on tape 2000_11_17_21_50.mp3.
Also from my journal. Looking at the NPR archives, it
looks like the article was on November 6.]
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| 2000 11 17 |
Note, marks start of separation.
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| 2001 06 13 |
Official court
transcript of H* testimony on hearing of June 13 She
admitted to and corroborated many of the allegations.
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| 2002 01 |
Marks time of D* returning to live primarily with H*. See
chapter 3 for an explanation of the transition. Also
see
this for more
information on events between June 2004 and May 2005.
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| 2002 |
D* crying at dinner -
apparently H* fined him $500 for scratching her car when he
ran into it with a bike, and then explained he would be
in debt and have his allowance taken for years to come.
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| 2002 |
D* cried about
having had needles in his candy at H*'s place. H*
boyfriend says that I planted this incident in D*'s mind
due to the word game I played to get him talk. This is
not a plausible explanation due to the magnitude of his
response and the fact that he told a surprising story.
See also H*'s use of
psychologists .
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| 2003 08 |
D* found to have tissue
damage in gut. A lot of controversy around this.
The doctor suggested it was fructose intolerance. Two
of the nurses working for the doctor complained that
there was more to it. In the least it is unusual to
biopsy a child for fructose intolerance.
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| 2003 08 |
H* accuses dad of poisoning
D*
<listen>
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| 2005 03 11 |
D* gives a painting he did at school to his father. She
put D* on the phone to ask for it back to be given to her.
transcripts
and see index for
this item at bottom of page, references also the related
emails.
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| 2005 |
D* writes essay at school that
his mother kicked the dog. In 2006 he complained she
promised to have his dog's leg fixed but didn't.
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| 2006 06 04 |
D* is told by H* she is withholding her love. He was
very upset.
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| 2007 02 20 |
D* is told by H* he will not see his only friend of the
time ever again if he "tells about it", or "finds his
voice".
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| 2007 02 20 |
D* explains he has no sports equipment at H*'s house.
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| 2008 07 |
D* refuses to return to this mother
and
she unloads personal insults and threats on him until
his face turns red and he cries. It takes three times,
counseling, and a lecture by his grandmother that his dad
will go to jail if he doesn't leave before he goes back to
her - to protect his father.
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| 2009 05 07 |
D* refuses to return to his mother again the after
Christmas. This time H* refuses to answer calls at
all. D* is placed in a psychiatric
ward where he is isolated, drugged, and exposed to
classical conditioning. He is allowed to leave any
time with his mother, but told he must stay indefinitely if
he wants his dad.
This is not the first
time.. See also lies H*
told to make this happen .
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